I was taken on pre-date ‘errands’ – by the fourth, I knew I had to run

He pulled up to my mum’s in a flashy car and suggested I hop in (Picture: Getty Images)I was really naïve in my early 20s. I’d grown up poor but quite sheltered (I once thought my drink had been spiked but it was a coffee bean in my sambuca shot) and I was only used to mixing with people from the same background as me.By early adulthood, I had also become a massive people pleaser. I felt massively out of my depth after university – I didn’t want to look silly o