"Nigerian women are materialistic."
"Nigerian women are becoming too woke."
"Bring back the days of our mothers". These familiar statements are recycled across Nigerian social media every two business days. Whether it’s in tweets, TikTok monologues, or Instagram rants, the tug-of-war between Nigerian men and women over what should or should not be in relationships/marriage is never-ending. But instead of adding to the noise, we decided to listen. We spoke to five Nigerian men, single and m