“Readiness Is Not a Destination”: Bella Disu’s Tedx Talk Invites Us to Confront Hesitation and Begin

Bella Disu’s TEDx Ikoyi talk, “Say Yes Now: Why Readiness is a Myth,” is resonating widely for its clarity and emotional honesty – not because it targets one group, but because it speaks to something universal: we hesitate at the very moment we need to move.In the talk, she reflects on the quiet weight of waiting – the belief that one more milestone, one more qualification, or one perfect condition is needed before taking a step. Psychologists call this destination